09-24-2003, 05:19 AM
Asalam~O~Alykum
U r in the same position as I am in, but my problem is some how different. I am also 15 yrs old. And I am in high school in the place that most sins happens in the US. I get lot of question from ppl like do u have a boyfriend? R u allowed 2 have one? And some other stupid question like do u have hair ? or do u belly dance? Gurl when some ppl ask me these questions I just ignore them. Also I wont forget some ppl’s stupid comments. OMG u don't have a life, u will be stuck like this 4ever and die with no joy of life. Then they laugh. In my mind I say we will c who will laugh at the end. Also I pray that Allah will lead them 2 the right way. They think by making sins this what joy of life is. They never tasted the sweetness of our religion that u and me and others taste when we r praying, fasting, giving charity, etc. Gurl don't let these ppl bother u with questions about other sister's just let them say what they want and ignore. That's the best thing. And don't get confused about the sister's that wear hijab and have bf. Just pray 4 them. Also try talking 2 them. Maybe they will listen. If u need any advise u came 2 the right place b/c mashallah on this website there r brothers and sisters with a lot of knowledge. Hope u found the answer 2 ur question.