Zar is Haram but I need to clear few points on what happen in my house!

[radiyah]

Bismillah


Alsalam a'laykom


Okay now Athkar, this is called athkar Al-Sabah and Al-Masa', u dont need gatherings to do and then at the end burst out crying as you mentioned, yes there is athkar and thikr of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'la according to The Holy book and Sunnah, and nothing else,


here is a total of Dua's that you can ask Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'la for, and they are taken from KITAB and SUNNAH, and those have proof from Hadeeth shareef and the Holy Quran:


http://www.islamic-knowledge.com/Hisn_al_M...n_Al_Muslim.htm


And Karbala I am not being harsh, I am trying to show info seeker here the true Dua' according to The Quran and Sunnah,


and I will be back with more insha'Allah for you info seeker. And I am a sister and not brother. And I would like you to show me here daleel of sahabas gathering as infoseeker described in his or her posts.


By the way infoseeker where are you from, this will help me a lot in clearing things for you.


Salam