Quote:Bismillahi Rahmanir Raheem
Know, Barakallhu feekum. There are many Fataawa on this issue which are in the form of questions to the most qualified people in the Ummah-The Scholars and everyone issue and questions are different and requires the experties of ahlul Ilm. the common persons experience cannot suffice in this regard because this is the deen of Islam and any effort to bring an writen work would require a student of knowledge to bring research in the matter. I would suggest geting in touch with one of the Female students of knowledge today her name is Umm abdillah al-Wadiiyyah she worte the book "advice to the women" in print now
also every week on line al-baseerah.org has live tele-Conferences with the Scholars of ahlul Sunnah in our times questions can be answered here:Ask the people of Knowledge
Assalaamu 'Alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh. Thank you for your input because the task of my anthology is to draw the Muslims' insight on how they PERSONALLY and SUCCESSFULLY deal with polygyny in their lives, in the shade of Qur'aan and Sunnah. This project is not seeking fataawa on people's specific issues within polygyny. This is a project inquiring on how people successfully implement what is already laid out in the Qur'aan and Sunnah and has been addressed by the 'ulamaa of this Ummah.
It has been made clear to those who are answering the questionnaire that they must do so without transgressing the bounds of Qur'aan and Sunnah. Again, people answering the questionnaire are being asked to speak about <b>THEIR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE</b> with polygyny, both the blessings they have <b>personally encountered</b> as well as the trials they have <b>personally encountered</b> and how they were able to overcome these trials by again, implementing the hukm and naseehah contained in the Qur'aan and Sunnah as well as in the fataawa and books of knowledge of the 'ulamaa. insha'Allah the compilers of this anthology plan on including some of the naseehah of the 'ulamaa on this topic, such as that of Shaykh bin Baz and Shaykh Uthaymeen raheemahumullah and Shaykh Fawzaan and the like hafidhahullah. If you have any other questions or constructive criticism, you can feel free to email my husband Abdus-Shaheed directly at daarkhors@aol.com. Baraak Allaahu feekum.