Bismillahi Rahmanir Raheem
Know, Barakallhu feekum. There are many Fataawa on this issue which are in the form of questions to the most qualified people in the Ummah-The Scholars and everyone issue and questions are different and requires the experties of ahlul Ilm. the common persons experience cannot suffice in this regard because this is the deen of Islam and any effort to bring an writen work would require a student of knowledge to bring research in the matter. I would suggest geting in touch with one of the Female students of knowledge today her name is Umm abdillah al-Wadiiyyah she worte the book "advice to the women" in print now
also every week on line al-baseerah.org has live tele-Conferences with the Scholars of ahlul Sunnah in our times questions can be answered here:Ask the people of Knowledge