Bismillah
FHC, when we discussed pre destination, we discussed in relation to the human choice aspect, correct? we were discussing whether or not after maturity, we are able to make choices of being obedient, believers, or not.
But we cannt choose our time of death, birth, nor the place, of both. See this is part of Ghayb (unknown). I dont want to elaborate here, rather not to get off topic. I reall dont want to hijack this thread, this is a very touching and deeply sentimental thread.
But Insh aAllah I will search the thread we discussed this on and add up to it. Certainly I will appreciate u directing me to it, to save time. :) We dont want u tossing around.