01-19-2007, 05:51 AM
Bismillah
You treat them all equally, but for the level of love, Allah Shall not hold one responsbile Insh aAllah. A man is supposed to treat them all equally, if he smiles to one, he smiles to the other, if he takes one out, he take the other/others, if he got one a present, he gets the other/others. BUt the love that is in the heart, one cann actually have control over it. Although a man is not supposed to make other wives feel this.
Polygyny is a burden over the man unlike people may perceive it as OO enjoying oneself.