Bismillah:
Quote: Thnak you Wel Mel 2 for your link, that was helpful, good to read,
You are welcome sister.
Quote: Apologies to Nasra who felt i had offended wome in hijabs, majority of my gf's wear the hijab, and my family, i would never offend them, the reason for my email, was because on a previous mail from a previous topic i had read. i got the impression that us women who do not wear the hijab are insulted and judged upon too quick. We are given the impression that because we dont wear the hijab, we are bad people.
No you are not bad. but you should not deny the fact that by not wearing Hijab you are indeed <b>disobeying Allah</b>, but insha’Allah you will put on your Hijab soon :)
Quote: I was just trying to make a point that we are equal too, and sometimes just as there are some women who do wear the hijab, who do wrong, there are also us that dont wear the hijab who do right, hence to the eg of people i gave. I wasnt judging anyone.
There is no need to compare between those who wear and those who don’t wear Hijab, <b>you should start by yourself and be example to other Muslims sisters. </b>
Repeatedly I hear some sisters say that the most important thing is what is in the inside, that their intentions are always good, and they are good persons, and <b>the hijab is the hijab of the heart</b>. They also pray 5 times a day, prays the night prayers, gives charity. However, they feel that this is enough for them. <b>Allah and His Messenger say that you cannot take parts of Islam and reject other parts. You have to take the religion as a whole. </b>
So let us do some calculation here. you are saying that you are doing a lot of good deeds and that your intentions are good, and your heart is pure. Alright, I agree with you, but I want to ask you one question. Let us calculate this together. Everyday you go out, and with every man that looks at your hair and your body, you gather sins, is that true or not? Of course you take sins because you didn't obey Allah's command. You'll might argue, 'It's not my fault, my intentions are good, it's the man that will take sins for looking at me.' No sister. He will take sins for looking at you, that’s true. But he looked at you in the first place because you were attracting attention. Let's analyze it. Everyday, how many sins would an unveiled woman gather? Would it go over a thousand sins a day? And remember, the man has two eyes, not one! And the man has a heart that loves and desires. Can you imagine the sins such a woman would be getting? I wonder if your good deeds will be enough? Will they outweigh the thousands of sins you are getting everyday? I want you to do a little experiment. Everyday you go out, count how many sins you are getting. How many sins do you get for every man that looks at your hair and body?
<b>Didn't Allah order you to wear the hijab? I am afraid that your good deeds are falling from a torn bag. The good deeds enter at the top and escape from the hole in the bottom.</b>
Quote: So from what Wel Mel 2 sent me, we are given the impression that you will only gat a place in heaven if you wear a hijab? so i guess thats only 50% of us then.......?
I can see you care a lot about women who wear Hijab but do bad deeds, and so some women say that they don’t want to put the hijab on because they don't want to be like these bad women. Okay, I too know people who pray, but do bad things; <b>does that mean we shouldn't pray?</b> Some people go to Hajj so that they can hide under the title of Hajj and that they can do bad things. <b>Does that mean we shouldn't go to hajj? </b> So sister, the wrong is not in the religion, but in the people themselves. So is the hijab bad or is it the person who’s wearing it? if your answer is the latter, <b>then you should put on your Hijab right now. </b>
Quote:Im sorry if i have offended anyone this time and i apologise in advance......
No offense sister, hopefully you can put on your Hijab soon insah”Allah.
Salam
Wael