10-16-2006, 09:42 AM
Bismillah
as salam alaykom shorty,
U havent been a pain or anything, what is this board for then? we are all here to help one another learn more and get closer to Allah. Better understand our religion.
Shorty, marriage is a blessing from Allah, it is the sunnah of Rasullah, we should not develop concerns. If we do, for example we will not do anything. We can also be concerned not to make it during exams, thus we dont study, or fail in work, then we dont apply for the job...etc.
shorty, any relation ship is subject to failure or success. If u marry in the name of Allah, try as much as possible to observe Allah's limits as a wife, Allah Shall Grant u success.
As for adoption:
http://islamsms.com/bb/index.php?showtopic=3670
read this thread, Nasra made the same question before.