10-15-2006, 07:34 PM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
Regarding the attitude towards a flirting husband. This issue contains a multifacted aspects.
When we need to address this issue, we need to look into:
1. What type of fliring, which degree?
2. Was it proved, in case it involved physical contact? I mean proved by either witnesses or his confession.
3. Was the wife a witness, in such case l`ean rule shall apply?
We need to examine more issues in order to decide how a wife would deal with the issue.
Just exactly when a wife is invovled in similar problems, same points must be examined before applying punishments, since when it comes to flirting, both parties are equal in the punishment.
But as for the beating due to disobedient, this is different.
And Allah Knows best.