09-18-2006, 10:29 PM
Salaam all
Wow..
this is actually harder to think about than i thought.
Call me a sentimental fool.. but her dowry is her gift from me. I wanted it to be something that she can have for life. To remember me when I die (if i die before her). To me giving cash kinda defeats this.
I would much rather take any amount of cash as necessary and get her something meaningful.
whaddaya thnk?