07-01-2003, 06:16 PM
Assalaamoalaikum
Not all who go to Tableeghi Jamat dars do shirk, or are mushrik. Those in Indian and Pakistan who have combined Tableeghi Jamat with sufism do shirk. Regardless of that you can still ask the brother about his beliefs, and clear your doubts. I would recommend you do istikhara, and in my opinion it would be better for you to marry the guy with the beard.
w'salam
-- Ali