Is it Haraam to fall in love with a women.

[Muslimah]

Bismillah


Assalamu alykom


Sister Muslimah


Thank for your welcome,I think you understand what I mean correctly so thank you again for clarifying this to the others but I have some notes.


Love for me is keeping a good feelings towards the others and I think there is many degree of loves so I consider admiration is the first degree of love and that is why I mentioned the first Ayah to show that Allah did`nt deny love .


For the second Ayah,the permission is given to the man to express to the woman,not to her wali


( you may refer to Ibn Katheer interpretation for example)but to be honest I think that because


the woman in this case need no wali in the secone marriage.


You said"However, in both cases, I dont think u meant in any way, that for example one who likes another person is allowed to go out even for coffee in a public place. Actually, the problem is that the moment both parties starting to like each other in a man woman manner, shaytan can very easily intercept. i mean even if they chat on msn, the chat can develop into different stages easily"


Of course I did`nt mean that and actually I did`nt consider this "love",If we like any one we like his benefits,going wrong is not a benefit at all.

as salam alykom


Jazakum Allah khairan Rock for this further explanation, I think that Alhamdulelah the number of posts here did cover the issue from different angles. specially that u stressed the rules which Suhail was capable of putting in a very simple style.


Regarding the Wali part, I will check it, although I did remember that in cases of a widow, the man may only express his wish indirectly to her family members not her directly, remember she is in Edat.


Insh aAllah will check it out jazakum Allah khairan