05-05-2006, 10:08 PM
:bismillah: :allahuakbar:
Thank you for replying back, my main reason in asking this question was just recently a female sister got murder by her brothers because she felt in love with a Muslim brother, parent did not approve it so she was taken to Pakistan and force to married a another Muslim brother who just wanted to come to UK for better life style.
sister patient is a great gift that Allah has given us , the one in my view master this art of patient in this world has then achieve a great goal and with Allah blessing has earn points towards his Janna .
this is what most of us lack of if we were patient and learn to be one then this world would have see less of what we are seeing already
as for your spouse well sister its a moral question , I would not want to live a life that I really did not enjoy Allah has made this world beautiful place in all shape and form and has given us a gift to make sensible decision. This is why I think Allah allow us to Marriage
up to 4 wife’s which now brings another complex question if man can married up to 4 wife does a women have the same choice.
again I like the quote from the Quran please sister.