04-30-2006, 07:29 PM
As for how to go for the woman of your life, is someone u trust knows a good woman that he/she sees adequate, they can arrange a meeting between both of u with someone present of course. You can talk and exchange ideas, it is the firt impression that is important. if the first impression is positive at both sides, this is Insh aAllah enough to go for marriage. Allah Shall Bless the marriage and protect both parties. I dont mean that u marry someone u dont like in any way, not we are encourage to marry those whom we like. A man must like her looks so she does. Understanding and all will only come from Allah after marriage, believe me waheed.
As for the hur of jannah, your wife in this life will be your wife Insh aAllah in jannah.
The hur to my understanding are those creatures from jannah. and Allah knows best