03-16-2006, 07:16 PM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
<b>OOOO look who is here the bride to be Insh aAllah, khadija long time no see, but we all excuse u. U must be very busy.</b>
<b>Mubarak for both of u may Allah Protect u and Guide u for the best, may Allah Makes u a comfortable of the eye for each other and grant u pious off spring......sooooon</b>
naseeha, as for the compromise thing, when u feel that u r keen on applying your opinion, think of the Messenger salla Allah a`lyhee wa sallam who is the best of mankind, when he used to take his wives opinion and go with it... Remember when he took Umm Salama's opinion on the day they were going for Umra and Quraish prevented them from getting into Mecca. They already had an Ehram status, he accepted their suggestion of coming back next year. But the companions were upset and refused to comply. He went into his tent and consulted umm salama. she adviced him to go outside, shave his hair and slaughter his camel in an indication of removing the Ehram status. He took her advice and the companions followed.
Are u better than your beloved Messenger and teacher??? i can hear u say O no NO no .
So just rememebr this, give her room, discuss with her, and think she might be right on this or that.....
O I m so happy for both of u