03-11-2006, 07:13 PM
Bismillah
as salam alykom Raudah
:) :) :) high school drama, :D :ph34r: at least now u have an idea when you must talk and when to not interfer. U might as well rather than defending your friend without hearing the other side, advice her not to get involved with guys and just maintain her self respect as a Muslim woman.
i m sure amma will come back with more specially she is also a young Muslim woman living in a non muslim country.
but let me ask u, regarding your uniform and schooling, is there any possibility to join an Islamic school? or in case u cannt, can u apply a special request to the adminstration to allow u just to make a longer sleeve blouse and a longer skirt in preparation for complying with the Islamic dress code? this might be a good idea.
As for male /female interaction, what is happening around u of course is incorrect. I live in a Muslim country, yet boys and girls still fall into the same problem due to being exposed to foreign media and thought. Raudah, it is not easy anywhere, temptation is every where, or else what shaytan is doing around earth?
Well, u need to be firm with guys and make sure they dont call your phone for no reason other than a necessity of learning or things like that. Of course u r not allowed to hold hands or take part in dancing events. U might try and skip them some how....
well let me wait for amma, i m sure she will come in with more ideas.