11-10-2005, 09:18 AM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
Suhail, the use of Ramadan is to take it as a training course. Matter of fact what we refrain from during Ramadan we must also refrain from during the rest of the year. It will take u time to have people used to your new attitude. You will be mocked around and made fun of, but at the end you will be able to establish a new identity that will be respected. And remember those who will mock around, will only do so because you remind them of their faults and mistakes. You will be in a way telling them I m better, this is how they feel. just exactly as a non Muslim who come here and start mocking around. They feel insecure.
so put this in mind. Go back to refraining from idle talk and pointless talk. Remember that u may die immediately after saying any word. See which type of talk u like to meet Allah after saying. Remember that the Messenger said one who's last words would be la ilaha ila Allah shall be destined to Jannah. U can only do this if u live for la ilaha ila Allah.
