10-14-2005, 04:00 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-14-2005, 04:07 AM by Universist.)
Quote:I found myself obliged to Insh a Allah try to explain the situation of the following Ayah;
"O Prophet! Why do you ban (for yourself) that which Allah has made lawful to you, seeking to please your wives? And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Quran 66:1)
As I put it as an example of how non Muslims twise facts and situations in order to distort the image of our beloved leader, teacher and Prophet Mohamed salla Allah a`lyhee wa sallam.
Thank you for opening this can of worms. Frankly, child molestation is much more of an issue than infidelity, so I had this one on a back burner, but since you brought it up.....
Quote:But on the situation of the Mohamed salla Allah a`lyhee was sallam it was different.
The situation occured as it was his day with Hafsa may Allah be pleased with her. He went to her house, didnt find her, so he called for Maria and had sex with her. When Hafsa came back, she found the situation and became upset.
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Quote:The Messenger in order to please her and make up, told her he would make Maria Haram (unlawful) or more accurately not divorce her but not to take her as a wife no more.
As Allah Never Lets the Messenger does something haphazardoly but rather to teach us, Allah Revealed this Ayah and probably this whole situation occured for us to learn that a man is never allowed to make something that is halal (lawful) haram just to please someone or make up for a mistake.
Allah Willed to Tell us that having sex with one's wife at the place of another is not haram, yes it might hurt the wife, but it is not haram. Besides he actually didnt strip the wife her rights, I mean he didnt overlook her day intentionally and preferred the other one. This would have been actually a sin.
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Quote:As the ayah clearly explains that the Messenger made something that is lawful unlawful for himself. In other words he vowed to prevent himslef from benefiting of something and as the Ayah goes on, it explains why? it was in order to please his wives or let us be precise one wife.
This is considered moral?
I am stunned.
I am shocked.
I am completely saddened by what I have read here.
Universist