10-08-2005, 08:27 PM
Bismillah
Peace Universist
I must ask Allah to Forgive me for failing to adopt the conduct a Muslim must maintain while talking to non Muslims.
I m only human who sometimes out of fault just forget this, you are a non Muslim and I must take this consideration, regardless of your aggressive attitude which does not help much to represent Universism as a calling trend.
Before Iftar today, I thought to myself about an important point. You are upset for children whom you see abused and you are working hard to change the world, the whole world according to your own viewpoint. I mean your actions are derived and based on your perception of things.
Just the same way as we are. We also feel very upset and sad for children being exposed as children to what you call a choice to lead such a life. I just realized this point.
Having said that, let me continue.
First, you might be surprised but I did click a couple of links.
Let us first clarify an essential point here:
we are Muslims who have faith in Allah, Quran and sunnah.
We belive Allah Does Exist opposite to you, you dont believe there is a Creator.
We fully accept the laws inherit in Quran and sunnah.
You fully accept manmade laws and what it brings of consequences.
Now, let me be more professional.
When I posted the reply I forgot to put something very important.
The marriage will only be valid if the girl accepts. Again I stress if the girl accepts
Otherwise, the guardian is committing a sin by consumating a marriage when the girl is not accepting.
To conclude, if there are such practices when a girl is denied her right to accept or not accept marriage, it is not the fault of the system, but rather the implementer. I will not go into details bringing you the hadeeth that stands as proof for this.
As I said earlier, if we have problems we can solve it. You know how? by allowing better and correct Islamic education so that a guardian would realize he is not allowed to force his daughter, sister...etc into marriage unless she accepts. No matter if she is 13 and the man is 40. If she is accepting then fine.
Whereas your aim is to correct such faulty practices through your own means. you want to abolish Islam. isnt this your aim???