09-26-2005, 07:21 PM
Bismillah
salam reepi
May be you are right in the way the posts are approaching the issue, btw this was never my trend. May be this post was a bit harsh. But let us face it reepi.
Let me talk to you from personal experience. Pls all dont be offended for I might need to use some sort of a bit open language.
At a stage of my life I worked with a jewish couple who were employed here in Egypt with one of the development foundation. Yes reepi jewish, they used to come to my house for food, so did I. I mean we had a close relation. we talked freely about many things, from social, religion to more.
Once the man was telling me how he has many single parent female friends, and how at one time they always needed his help to talk to their growing up daughters about how to have safe sex. Those girls were like 11 and 12. he was telling me, he used to play the male figure in their lives. He said, he used to start like you know now you are all grown up and so u might meet someone interesting and he moves to how to use condoms and all. He told me that they would respond O no, he added and probably they are already having it for a year. Iasked him how would he handle it when it comes to his own daughter? he said probably accept the fact.
I have more stories like this reepi. I know it might sound hard for you, but u also cannt deny this fact. you cannt deny that condoms are freely distributed in schools. right.
Truth sometimes hurt, but this is the truth.
The message I posted last was aiming into tackling the concubine part.
And no reepi, i never said that every western non Muslim woman is like this, but the majority are.