09-15-2005, 06:51 AM
Bismillah
Peace all
Reepi made it so easy for me, by him saying a Muslimah who is living in the West has a choice to abide by or not. This is the core of interest, this is the essence of Islam. This is the essence of freedom to me and I think as long as Suhail made this reply he fully agrees with. Will not put words on other members mouths, but I am sure Muslim women will agree.
BTW reepi, even living in Saudi Arabia a woman may choose to abide by the Islamic dress code or not. NOt in public yes, but if she is on a social visit she may just remove it.
See reepi if you dont feel that Allah Is Watching u every where, then u can do anything and be happy deceiving yourself with this illusion of freedom, when actually you r just making your own rules and regulations to abide by them and say hey I am free.
John, my reasons - and I dont think I was off topic on my above comments - a western woman is self deluded into this illusion of freedom. Some of them goes to the extreme of being feminists that they dont even want to have sex with me.
Now that of course to them is the ultimate freedom, her body is her own problem and she uses it as she wishes. They deregulated what Allah Regulated, then all of a sudden, she feels a need to a family O now they need to regulate what they deregulated. So they fight to be accepted in church for marriage, ok they got that. O now she needs chidlren.
Back again to what Allah Created, back to sperm banks and medically assisted reproduction just to evade what they deregulated.
Is this freedom? no this is ultimate enslavement but to oneself.
A woman is in most cases a sex object, come on john let us be frank about it. Didnt u hear find them feed them love them leave them?
You even mentioned going to clubs, finding someone, going back home with them, is this how a woman is respected? mostly a one night stand?
They ususally statart on having sex very early making them having multiple sex partners that in some cases i hear figures like 50 and 60. Do u know that this proved to be major cause of pelvic canser?
Is this the freedom any one is looking for?
leave alone the example I gave you which actually sparked this idea.
Using women on commercials, in election campaigns, running business...etc.