09-14-2005, 08:07 PM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
Brother Ahmed I know I said Id stop only to avoid being in an argument u know what I mean, in following of the Sunnah.
But again let me just say this, polygyny is a safety valve for many diseases that may befall the socitey. Being in a monogomus marriage yourself and satisfied Alhamdulelah does never mean that another man going into polygyny is wrong.
Brother, it was not only Omar who did that, most of the companions went into polygyny during the Messenger's life, were they all wrong? how come he didnt tell them off?
We must really think many times before trying to anaylze what Allah Made lawful. We must be very careful not to limit Allah's Mercy when Allah Expanded it. Just like I told u, in case someone had a surgery and cannot apply water, will this person be deprived of the license to do Tayamum, because he /she is not in a desert with no water?
Just think again before you continue insisting, just because you are Mash a Allah Alhamdulelah happily married to the one woman.
Allah's Wisdom is far beyond identification, I can actually make a list of at least 10 reasons why Allah Made polygyny permissible.