07-21-2005, 08:21 PM
Quote:assalamualaikum-many of us think we need sabr in distress only ., we r wrong. we need sabr at every point.take prayers for eg;-soon after prayers wat many of us feel? to run &to finish the work we left.here we need sabr.forget about the work.havesabr to sit firmly in the same place &do dikhr,read quran &make dua ernestly to Allah.u happened to see adikhr majlis u want to escape? have sabr to join &learn.Allah,s blessing will be there.u see ur friends takingpart in music &danceu feel urge to join?.here u need sabr to go away from such parties.wefeel like speaking ill of our friends, relatives etc.have sabr avoid such loose talk.have sabr topardon ones servant.A prophetic hadees, one should pardon their slaves 70 times a day.It is not that easy to have sabr. we must practise alot to attain that stage.read quran with meaning.take some time to learn by heart from hadees, the reward &the punishment of daily life happenings. there will be achange for good .make dua lot for sabr.
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JazzakallahuKhayr...
Do you know me before 7 or 8 years ago? No.. But I know myself...
There is alot difference between at this time and now...
If I give number for me in Islamic life...
I had maybe 60 or 70 percent of hundert..
Now I have 5-10 percent of this.... You dont know reason why it come so. I know it.. Its not i was away from Islam because I like that other life like dancing and music etc..
You know what means you get shocked and you live with these shock until now and this ruined your motivation and everythink..Your power for sabr, your power for fight with shaytan and nafs? You mood to live anyway?Its is easy to say do that go there etc. etc... I could not concentrate me i was not here with my thoughts.
In short, I m guided to this situation... Nothing happens without reason and of nothing can nothing happen. So there was out effects..
Now Alhamdulillah I know more, Only a few ppl just they would give me a lesson...
They now are adult ppl maybe they are married and have kids. And have a good family life.. But my sad family lifes shade is over them like a blacksky...
They never believed me, I would pretend me. Alhamdulillah I dont. Alhamdulillah I dont make freindship with any other to take revenge..And never make friendship with non muslims against a muslim...
Oh yes, they are blessed, Allah swt will forgive them... And when I come to hell is no problem, important they come to Jannah...
Now they dont know me, that is what some of them says...Well they know me and lie me, lie to me isnt haram...Backbiting against me isnt haram... They are making dawah of islam and have right to do that all...
That I feel me very sad and unmoodly to anythink, there is no any comments in Islam.. Allah swt care HIS creator and judge with my undertsand what i have...Others cant look into in my brain...
That is it....
I leave all good deeds to them, because I cant do anythink, They should still keep to want enter to jannah... Allah swt is enought for me as supporter...
Wassalamu Alaikum..Fi amanalliah....