07-21-2005, 05:48 PM
assalamualaikum-many of us think we need sabr in distress only ., we r wrong. we need sabr at every point.take prayers for eg;-soon after prayers wat many of us feel? to run &to finish the work we left.here we need sabr.forget about the work.havesabr to sit firmly in the same place &do dikhr,read quran &make dua ernestly to Allah.u happened to see adikhr majlis u want to escape? have sabr to join &learn.Allah,s blessing will be there.u see ur friends takingpart in music &danceu feel urge to join?.here u need sabr to go away from such parties.wefeel like speaking ill of our friends, relatives etc.have sabr avoid such loose talk.have sabr topardon ones servant.A prophetic hadees, one should pardon their slaves 70 times a day.It is not that easy to have sabr. we must practise alot to attain that stage.read quran with meaning.take some time to learn by heart from hadees, the reward &the punishment of daily life happenings. there will be achange for good .make dua lot for sabr.