07-21-2005, 07:31 AM
Brother Muhseen
I am confused,why you are angry?
You said"I cant stay here, when i get suggest i m against islam and against muslim.Well i dont have islamic webpage and i dont have much knowledge. So i m not a holy muslim like some1."Who said that you are against Islam?did I missed
somthing?Any way there are no need to have islamic webpage beside all of us
are requested to increase our Knowledge even those whom you think they have much knowledge.Do you know that the muslem`s Kalifa Omar Ibn Alkhatab always
ask the GOD to give him faith like the old people faith,they believe in the God,they obey the GOD,they worship to the GOD and no more.I give you this Hadith Qudsi
On the authority of Abu Umamah from the Prophet(pbuh)who said that Allah(mighty and sublim be He)said:
Truly of those devoted to Me the one I most favour is a believer who is of meagre means and much given to prayer,who has been particular in the worship of his Lord and has obeyed Him inwardly,who was obscure among people .........."
Return to how we can make our sabr stronger?
!-If we are faced with a big problem we can`t accept,first we must make efforts as much as we can to solve this problem,then waiting the results from Allah.Our feeling that we did our duties well help us to accept the results.
2-If we have nothing to do and it is too hard for us, go to Allah,asking Him sabr,be close to Him,increase worshipping,reading Quran ,Pray to Allah,make sadakat....
keeping in our minds and our hearts that we must accept our God will,our sadness willnot change any thing,it may cause troubles to us .
3-Remembering always that sabr is not easy,Allah know that some times we are weak and for that he rewarded the patients by the Paradise,so we must prepare our self to be patient even before our need to be patient.We can do that by making our faith stronger,by reading more about the reward of the patients in the Quran and the Hadith.
4-Trying to forget the problem,sharing time with our friends,friends are exist to help each others in hard times.