04-04-2005, 02:31 PM
Quote:I wonder why u r calling the replies on the board rigid and depressing? is it because it didnt conform to your findings? Sobhan Allah, sorry for this but this is illogic. Didnt u see that one of the Ayahs is even quoted wrongly? is this rigid and depressing?
Is it because u found out that items u brought are not correct? except for the raisin head hadeeth which my sisters already explained and Insh aAllah I have more to say about?
If u r not satistisifed with the replies or does not make sense to u I will simply quote u on another thread agreeing with Dan for being frustrated with members who dont understand the point and insist on their position.
Theres no need to be rude and sarcastic, all you need to do is read back on my posts to see how much i love Islam and have given everything up for it. But being Muslim doesnt mean i become a Robot, if something isn't right then im gonna say, not stand blank faced and tell myself. "It doesnt make sence because Allah made it that way, we cannot comprehend"
I don't appreciate this kind of talk at all.
Quote:u I will simply quote u on another thread agreeing with Dan for being frustrated with members who dont understand the point and insist on their position.
You shouldnt turn on me with Sarcasm simply because i'm questioning my religion. Thats a bad example sister. You should calm down and take some tips from Dan in particular. That kind brother is helping me with Honesty and genuine concern in PM's and i wish him Allah SWT blessings for doing so.
I say rigid and depressing because to be brainwashed to the point of not actually seeing that calling a black person a raisin head isn't offensive. It's dazzles me, honestly it does. The reason the raisin head comment is deleted from Islamic books is because people see it as offensive. I am a Muslim i live for Allah SWT only, but Allah doesnt want me to be stupid. If someone called me a raisin head at work, they would be prosecuted for racism.
Anyway this was just one Minor concern i had but i am certainly not going to bring them to the forum if i'm going to get the kind of rudeness below.
Quote:Didnt u see that one of the Ayahs is even quoted wrongly? is this rigid and depressing? Is it because u found out that items u brought are not correct?
Sister i cannot belive someone as wise and intelligent such as yourself whos guided me in Islam like a mother almost could write something so stupid. Why would i want the Hadiths about Satan being a Black man to be right? I am black Muslim remember, so will my daughter be Insha Allah and so will my future children be. Why would i want the Hadith to be true? That doesnt make sense does it. That was a strange thing to say.
If the hadith i bought are incorrect or forged then for goodness sake i am glad, i just dont understand why u think i'd want them to be True. Just because i'm asking questions doesnt mean i no longer love my Prophet PBUH and Islam. May Dan, Intuition and the others helping me with my concerns continue to do so in these distressing times for me. Jazakallahu