03-17-2005, 02:08 AM
I agree with Dan
Allah never burdens us with more then we can bear.
Intuition Some people worry more about who's iman is weak or strong instead of their own iman. What gives people the right to do that subhanalllah. I have met people who say you'll go to hell, you'll go to paradise [img]style_emoticons/default/blink.gif[/img] , how sad is that?
You know what clears up everything 4 me?.....the ayah that clearly makes it permissable for men to have 4 women doesn't say that any woman who doesn't want to be in a marriage like that will go to hell.
another thing that makes me go [img]style_emoticons/default/blink.gif[/img] is when I hear some muslims saying ........have patience be in a pologamy marriage you'll earn rewards put your feelings aside......... Hello! Nobody has to suffer to be in a situation where they need not to be in, its not obligatory for a girl to be with a man who wants plogamy. She can earn rewards in many other forms too.
Quote:I am just saying that everyone's relationship with Allah is very personal and only He and that person know the true nature of it.
You hit the nail right on the head Bro.........
Masalama