03-11-2005, 07:02 PM
Bismillah
Sister Muslimah, thanku for clarifying, but I really did not bring any of what I wrote from my own nafs or self, I provided ahadeetha and verses of Quran, The sahaba always used to emulate in marrying the Shuhadas wives or even divorced women, and so did The Prophet(PBUH), when he married our mother Umm Salama, or our mother Zaynab bint Jahsh after she was divorced from zayed. And i am not passing a judgement on any one, and it is not to me to say who's Iman is higher or who is entering heaven or hell, aotho Billah min thalik, This is Allah's Right and not mine and I hope that sister intuition understood what I meant now [img]style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif[/img]
Quote:Insha'Allah when Mr right comes along to marry me, I'm going to make my mehr and part of the marriage contract that he promises to always encourage me to be a better muslimah and to never re-marry while he's married to me.
any man who refuses to except that rule can forget about marrying me. [img]style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif[/img]
just being real
MasalamSister intuition
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Quote:Bismillah
"Insha'Allah when Mr right comes along to marry me, I'm going to make my mehr and part of the marriage contract that he promises to always encourage me to be a better muslimah and to never re-marry while he's married to me."
I dont know about the underlined sister yasmin, I never heard that before, that u have the right to put that condition, can u fortify that with a hadeeth or fatwa sister, to make sure that u can make such a condition, thanking u for that, then u will add new information to us.
Wasalam
Okay sister Yasmin, I asked about the above an azharete scholar who has PHD in Fiqh, Dr. Nadiya Hashim, she said a woman has the right to put conditions as much as she likes, but .. these conditions are not obligatory and he is not to abide by them if they are against share', and against what Allah has permitted, he can agree to these conditions, but if he then decided to maryy another one even after writing that condition, it is his right to because it is no ones right to stop a rule that Allah(SWT) permitted, and if then she chose for divorce or whatever she has the right as sister fearAllah has masha'Allah posted in fully.
she told us a hadeeth narrated by our mother Aysha(may Allah be pleased with her): Any condition that is not in The book of Allah is ineffectual, even if there is one hundred condition"
Another Hadeeth also narrated by our mother Aysha: Muslims are obliged to their conditions unless they forbid what is Halal, or permit what is haram"
She did not give us sannad and she was in a hurry, I will get it from her next time in Sha' Allah. Or if any of my brothers and sister can find the sanad before I get, it will be added to their scale of Ajr in Sha'Allah.
And Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'la A'la Wa A'alam
Wasalam