Bismillah
as salam alykom
Dan and Intuition I fully understood what meant may be the way I expressed myself was too brief as usual. What I was trying to present is the other aspects of polygny that sometimes people fail to look at. In some cases it is as I said a remedy for the woman who feels a strong attachment that could lead to minor shirk. Hope I conveyed the meaning this time.
Just to make sure I do see exactly what u mean, the rule is there, if u r equipped for it go ahead if not stay away lest u shoulder what u can not take.
I saw men going into polygyny and then saying I didnt know it is hard.