03-06-2005, 03:20 PM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
I fully agree with u Intution no one is allowed to judge whose Eman is weak, not for any reason.
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If this was the case why are we allowed to stipulate in our marriage contract that if the husband takes a second wife the first is autmotically divorced. If it means weak Eman Allah Would never allow us this. If the man is allowed to take a second wife, the first is allowed to practice Sabr or get a divorce. I think what Radiyah meant was that she wishes women are able to take the chance and look at it as a test and get the reward since we are also adviced to avoid divorce as much as possible.
Of course I am not putting words in her mouth, but ....... [img]style_emoticons/default/smile.gif[/img]