02-16-2005, 07:37 AM
I had this belief a couple months ago before I got married, and here I am now again, "I will never ever marry a man who has wives or a wife, even if he is the last man remaining on the face on this world".
So now feel free to figure out how I'd feel if my husband married married another woman upon me.
I would not stop my husband from making his own decisions but I'll make mine too and thats not to wake up in that marriage another day again no matter how much I love him. In simple words, i will seek my divorce.
As I hear a lot, maybe its because I don't have Imaan, or maybe its because I need to do some maturing. Whatever it is, I'm passed the fact that ALlah made it Halal for men to have upto 4 wives, but keep in mind that its optional for us to agree or disagree.
I know how much it hurt my grandmother when my good ole grandpa decided to marry 4 women upon her. I am sorry but I won't cheer for polygyny.
AstaqfuruAllah