02-15-2005, 08:43 AM
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Who would choose such a lifestyle of sharing your husband with someone else?
If someone here is in a polygamous marriage, I'd love to hear their side of the story. Or even if you'd LIKE to be in such an arrangement, PLEASE let me hear your story.
i can't say that i'm in a polygamous family, but some of my friends do. i still remember during my primary school years when i have to cycle 2 miles from school to home. sometimes it's already late at night. i remember one of my friend always mocking on me saying " i don't have to cycle home like you because i have another 'mother' living nearby, i'll go n sleep at her place tonight". he's happy to have another 'mother' ( his father second wife) and both of the wives like each other. i haven't heard of any problem in their marriages yet.
it just that you can't understand something you just read from somewhere. you've got to see for yourself. i'm not saying that i'm going to practice polygamy, why would i? but it isn't that bad. it's not encouraged, yet it's not forbidden.