Quote:I completely understand if you do not want to respond to someone who asks a question with a bad tone, whether they have a source or not. I know you don't want to deal with their reaction, and I don't blame you. If that is the case, then you should not respond, not even to tell them that their tone is bad. Then you are only getting yourself into the discussion that you say you don't want to be a part of.
How was i involving myself in the discussion, i said i was "done with this discusssion" it was only until you decided to have a dig that i'm responding again. Ronni was suprised why no one, not just me, but no one had responded to her links. I suggested to her the reason may be becuase of her tone. Because let's face it no one did respond as you said, so i'm sure i'm not the only one who felt she comes across rude. As for telling me when and when not to respond....really, maybe it's a UK/US language communication thing that you appear extremely rude suggesting this, but i will respond where and when i want to. If i want to pop into a post to tell someone their tone is bad and then dip out i will do so. I wouldn't have even responded to Ronni in a reply in this post anyway as i belive i said "Anyway i'm done with this" meaning even if Ronni had replied i'm done with it. Therefore not interested in a discussion. It's only when you commented on me that i have to defend myself here. This is nothing to do with the discussion with the person who's tone i object to as i said i was done with that, this now taking place between me and you just happens to be in the same topic. Otherwise if you'd have kept your comments to yourself, i would have been gone from this topic.
Quote:But if we want to have *discussions* with them, we should be doing so in a respectful manner, otherwise they will come back at us with the same manner that we approach them (unless they come here not wanting to learn, which I don't think is the case with Ronni).
Cannot belive i'm reading this, i think you need to look over Ronnies posts again, her manner of asking questions and then think about what you wrote above. Honestly i think you have made an error here so this is not your fault. Read through her posts again, and see if she really is here to learn. You seem to be the only one who thinks so. Her manner of asking questions sarcasm regarding the "hand of god" that wrote Qur'an. Sarcasm regarding how convieniently Prophet only received revelations when his people needed them. Which....makes perfect sence anyway but. And so on and so forth. I can with ease post a list of all her comments but i fear as with JohnDoe you will be the first to rush to her defence, claim i am more offensive and claim i took her words out of context or mis interpreted them, when they are clear open quotes. Honestly sister, take a step back from this and have a look at how you're being here. You're supposed to be the responsible Muslimah right?
Quote:And part of the beliefs of Islam is to show respect toward the Christians and Jews because they believe in our God, and all of our prophets except Mohammed, peace be on them all.
Erm, no...this is not correct. If they belive in Trinity as Ronni does, they will end up in hell. If they claim Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) has had a son (as Ronni does) they will end up in hell. Unless they change from these incorrect practises and follow the last Prophet (Peace blessings and love of Allah be upon him) and embrace Islam, then they will be "amongst the losers" in the hereafter. Hellfire. So you can't come with this strange way of thinking a lot of Muslim have lately, that all jews and Christians will enter Jannah with us Muslim <i>who obey Allah </i>(Subhanahu wa ta'ala) No unless they loose the trinity Blasphemy and the God has had a son Blasphemy and follow the original teachings of Christ, which they have no more...then they will end up heaped in the hellfire in the hereafter. Honestly i shouldnt be telling you this, should be the otherway round, i'm only barely half a year in this Deen. Honestly, sometimes you come across as frighteningly Christian with the above Quotes, and with your saying "Ronni is here to learn" It really is uncomfortable. You're supposed to be proud to be Muslim not apoligetic.
Anyway show the Kafir who you wish to continute accepting their slandering of your religion how much you are the better Muslim by not responding to this hot headed one who flies off at the handle (anywabwile) show you are the better Muslim by not sinking to my level and ignoring me. Otherwise if you respond, you are just as bad as me lowering yourself to my level. Show me how much you are above me by leaving this now.
Assalamu Alalikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh
<b>Allahu Akbar</b>