01-21-2005, 10:19 PM
Quote:Anya I don't think the tone of the post should matter, because actually she did put a link to the source of her information. If anyone puts a link to a source, I think we as muslims are obligate to at least check if the source is valid, so that we can then explain why it is invalid, or if it is valid to go forward with the discussion.
*Sigh* Maybe your right, perhaps it shouldn't matter. But just because we are all Muslims doesn't mean we are all identical like robots in our manners and actions does it. To <b>you </b> if someone who is being offensive in their style of writing and posts asks you to look at something you do it fine. To me, i don't show much interest, because i know whatever their response to me seeking that information would be, it would inevitably be in the same style as the request for me to look at something. In other words it's like someone who is offensive against Islam asking me to justify something in it or whatever. I respond to a point, as i have done with Ronni and the others but only to a point. I come here to enjoy reading posts as well, not to have to defend something which is blatantly the truth from people who don't even <b>want</b> to see it is. It's just tiresome, you can only give Da'wah and information to a point.
So if someone is asking me to look at something and are like "why is this like this then? come on come on show me then" No matter what my response is, they will never accept, by their very nature. This is the same with Ronni. I at least ask for civil and respectful dialogue first, then get into researching links. This is how i work, as i said <b>you</b> may be different.
I havent got time for these kind of games now. I gave people like Ronni a lot of time before but now as members have advised me i either ignore or respond if the manner i'm being asked to do something is a bit more respectful. It's like this topic right here and others, no matter how much we explain, a Christian such as Ronni is never going to accept or understand the Arabic Qur'an is untouched from the day it is was revealed. No matter what they come with <b>no where </b>is it proven the Qur'an we have is different from the one the Prophet (Peace be upon him
This post will just go on and on and on like the post she made about it months back and so on and so forth. Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) tells us with some people in the Qur'an, no matter what we do, they will not see, this is how their life pans out. We only try so much and then leave it. Not keep banging our head against the wall trying to explain to someone who doesn't want to see the truth for whatever reasons they may have.
Anyway i'm done with this. I logged on to see what my brothers and sister had to say after Eid etc not to be dragged down by Christians attacking my religion and not to have to explain myself to a good sister who is curiously insistent on defending Kafir. Please PM me if you have views about my posts in the future sister, this telling off on forums can get frustrating. I know i need to "cool off" in defending my religion but PM's and Emails are better i think.
Assalamu Alalikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh