Role of married couples In Islam

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Al-salam 'alaykom


Masha'Allah La Ilaha Ila Allah Niqaby really this is wonderfull sister Sally, I hope we can do this one day insha'Allah.


"LA BA'SS, TAHOOR IN SHA'A ALLAH" this is said to one who is sick or was sick which means there is no illbeing or no harm done, and it will be(the sickness)purifying to your soul from any sins committed u will have alms for being sick insh'Allah.

sister can you educate me about the duty of a husband to his wife??
when it come to maharam.....is it rigth to allow a wife to travel for along time?


can you sent me some aricle about maharamship...i just want to study about it sister i know you can help.....


iam doing my dawa'h here..

Bismillah


<b>Allah is my guidance and saviour</b>


In Islam sister a man should be very merciful and tolerant with his wife, he should also help her with her home duties and not leave her to do everything alone, our beloved Prophet used to help his wives in cleaning and even in kneading dow and cooking, so are the men of these days better than him, they should follow his role. (MPBUH)


The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "The best among you are those who treat their wives in the best manner." - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 217






In this hadith he encourages muslim men to treat their wives in the best manner, and not to be harsh to them so Allah will be pleased with them, and also women should obey their husbands and pleases him in every way, by dressing nicely for him not going out without his permission, and so on


Another hadith


Narrated Aisha - "(The Prophet Muhammad) never beat anyone with his hand, neither a woman nor a servant." - Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1082






This is our beloved teacher who teaches us mercy and love to women and servants, he never beat a woman or a searvant, and the aya in The Holy Quran were it orders to beat women if they disobey, the prophet translated that by not being harsh or break a bone, just a slight push to waken her up from her bad doing and that will be the last resort.


also


Bismillah AL-Rahman Al-Raheem:


O you who have attained to faith! (You you have become Muslims!) It is not lawful for you to [try to] become heirs to your wives [by holding onto them] against their will; and neither shall you keep them under constraint (force or enslave them) with a view to taking away anything of what you may have given them, unless it be that they have become guilty, in an obvious manner, of immoral conduct. And consort with (communicate with, be together with) your wives in a goodly manner; for if you dislike them, it may well be that you dislike something which God might yet make a source of abundant good. (Qur'an, 4:19)



In praise of the religious woman:



The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser." Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27: Narrated Abu Huraira.


The Prophet ordered men to marry relegious women, becasue a relegious woman will listen to every order given from Allah(SWT), and from these orders is that she is not to travel for long distances without a mahram unless he(her husband) has made arrangements for her as with whom should she travel and who is she going to receive her at airport and who is she going to stay with, like nowadays if u travel in a plane a plane is a safe way to travel he will take u to the airport and in the other country there will be a relative to greet u there who is a mahram. and Allah(SWS) knows best.


As for Hajj for those who do not have mahram they will allow her to go but only once and not more than that and she must go with a trusted group of relegious people and not alone.


Volume 7, Book 62, Number 120:



Narrated Abu Huraira:


The Prophet said, "A woman should not fast (optional fasts) except with her husband's permission if he is at home (staying with her)."


If a woman has fard days to fast she should not ask his permission becasue that is order form Allah Subhanahu Wa T'ala. But then if she wants to fast optional days, she is not allowed unless after her husband's permission. Some will say oh see how a woman is treated she has no free will, but little do they know that this is best for her and her husband, this will nourish a respectful relation between both man and woman, as them being 2 persons merged into one sharing everything in the life they chose to share together, and not being apart each living his own life no one knows nothing about the other until it turns life into hell. And every1 should know that a man should also take permission from his wife if he wants to fast optional days, he must not disregard her opinion or needs just as he asks the same from her.


Volume 7, Book 62, Number 123:



Another Hadith Narrated by Abu Huraira:


Allah's Apostle said, "It is not lawful for a lady to fast (Nawafil) without the permission of her husband when he is at home; and she should not allow anyone to enter his house except with his permission; and if she spends of his wealth (on charitable purposes) without being ordered by him, he will get half of the reward."


This is a little information I put for now I will gather more for u sister and tell me if this is enough or u need more. And I am sure that my other sisters and brothers will help with this also. . And Allah Subhanahu Wa T'ala knows best. If I am right from Allah if I am wrong from my ignorance and mistake.


Wasalam 'alaykom wa Rahmat Allah Wa Barakatuh