11-17-2004, 11:01 AM
Bismillah
as salam alykom
<b>I can see the point in telling me about a serious sin... but for some reason I feel like I could say the Shahada till I'm blue in the face..... and in the eyes of every other Muslim, I'm still a Catholic
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I am afraid I dont understand this statement quite well Shaunee.
Shaunee, let it me talk to u from heart to heart. If u felt for a moment that we dont feel or understand your situation, then u r wrong. We exactly know how u feel. U r going thru much change and full transformation. We know that.
In our endeavor to post more material, is only due to our responsiblility before Allah, we can not let info that directly affects the level of a religion of someone be posted unless are fully verified. So we had to dig and bring more material.
As for the link to Arabic site, I already went to this site and tried searching but no luck.
If u look again at the points I highlighted, The point says that the woman after observing Idat, which is an implicaiton that the marriage is automatically dissolved.
Now as far as your own position, that is totally between u and Allah. No one can really tell u what to do.
But I can only post this Ayah for u to ponder on:
"And disgrace me not on the Day when (all the creatures) will be resurrected; * The Day whereon neither wealth nor sons will avail, * Except him who brings to Allah a clean heart [clean from Shirk (polytheism) and Nifaq (hypocrisy)]." (Quran 26:87-89)
And
"The Day when Maulan (a near relative) cannot avail Maulan (a near relative) in aught, and no help can they receive," (Quran 44:41)
And
"And no bearer of burdens shall bear another's burden, and if one heavily laden calls another to (bear) his load, nothing of it will be lifted even though he be near of kin." (Quran 35:18)
Shaunee of the Day After, nothing and noone can help except what u believe in. So if u by the Grace of Allah reached the truth. Again look at the perviously mentioned Ayahs and ask Allah to help u make the correct decision. meanwhile I think u seriously need our dua
Brothers and sisters say ameen with me
Alhamdulelah, Allahum sallai a`al Mohamed wa aleh wa sahbeh
Allahum Guid Shaunee to the correct path
O Allah this is your devotee shaunee, she saw the light, but she is having difficulty, O Allah One Who Gets ways out of unexpected ways, Find her a way out.
O Allah Best of Planners plan the best for her and arrange the best. O Allah Settle her matters to the best for her and her family ameen.
O Allah Makes all her matters as easy as possible since U R the Only One who can do that.
walhmaudlelah Rubel a`lameen