11-15-2004, 07:52 PM
Alsalam 'alaykom
Quote: However, some scholars see that it is for her to remain with him, allowing him to enjoy full conjugal rights, if he does not prevent her from exercising her religion and she has hope in him to revert to Islam.
As I learned from our Fiqh scholar, she told us the moment a woman reverts she is totaly prohibited to have any sexual relation with her ex. because he is considered to be kafir or mushrik and if she commits sexual relations with him she will be considered as an adulter, and adultry is prohibited in Islam and totally forbidden and that is according to Allah's word:
Bismillah Al-Rahman Al-Raheem:
3. The adulterer marries not but an adulteress or a Mushrikah and the adulteress none marries her except an adulterer or a Muskrik [and that means that the man who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan or idolatress) or a prostitute, then surely he is either an adulterer, or a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater, etc.) And the woman who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater) or an adulterer, then she is either a prostitute or a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan, or idolatress, etc.)].<b> Such a thing is forbidden to the believers (of Islâmic Monotheism).</b>
Translation of the above aya by Scholar Ibn Katheer(ra)
http://www.tafsir.com/default.asp?sid=24&tid=35505
So the words underlined are clear and enough proof that it is forbidden for the beleivers to mary a mushrik, once she reverted she should not allow him to touch her, she should invite him to Islam, if he accepted then okay there should be a new marriage according to the islamic marriage laws, and even if he was willing to become a muslim the imam in the masjid must intreview him and talk to him and know of his true intentions, because there are many that revert to islam just to marry muslim women while they are not truly muslims. If u will be kind enough shaunee dear and provide us with the link to that fatwa u provided by scholar Qaradwi. We want to know where u got that fatwa from.
Wasalam