A Common Problem I Notice Alot Lately.....

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Bismillah Al-Rahman Al-Raheem


<b>ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR , There is no God but Allah and Prophet Muhammad is his Messenger
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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH Shunee congratulations sister, really I do not know what to say or add, I am late her, every1 has been active with u while me I was away for a while, but really if u could c me now so excited and very very happy, and really I do feel like crying, and I really do not know what to say it is 2:35 Am I was supposed to be tucked in bed by now, but really I had to read this post to the last bit, may Allah help u Shaunee and guide your husband to the right path, ask Allah's Aid, and pray vey hard to him, even cry like babies to Him ask him to enlighten your husband's heart and beleive me , and as my brothers and sisters told u He will guide u to what is the best for u. And I was really touched by the words of brother Anya:

I just had to sit down, have many many long nights to myself thnking who do i love more, who is more important to me my girlfriend or God, who gave me my girlfriend my life, my daughter my eyes to see the very existance around me, and who will support me in the hurtful times after we split. There can never be a comparison as soon as you love something more than God, you elevate that thing to a position higher than God. Sure i know some will say it's a different kind of love but that's a cop out in a way. We all know what love is and we all feel the different degrees of love in my opinion.

Really those underlined words of brother Anya are what every1 should think about. It reminded me of an event that happened to me when I went to hajj this year, there was a famous Kuwaity female singer with us in hajj who now has returned to the path of Allah, she is wearing the niqab and is learning to becaome a Daiya(teacher of Islam), she told us: I told my children, if I for one minute know that u r not willing to walk my path, and u r away from Allah's path, and I was to chose between u and Allah, then beleive me I will chose Allah, his love is stronger and never ending. She had a divorce from her husband who did not practice true Islam, but she was rewarded and she was given a big bounty from Allah, her children chose her path and she was married to a very rich saudi pious man, and she is now continuing her Islamic studies. I am not telling u her story asking u to shut the door in the face of your husband. Just chose Allah and He will chose what is best for u, He created u and He knows what is best for u.


Congratulations again sister and may Allah be your Assistance and Guidance


Wasalam