09-13-2004, 11:06 PM
<b>The Holy Prophet (saaw) said:</b> <b>"Man is influenced by the faith of his friends. Therefore, be careful of whom you associate with."
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<b>Don't be in the company of fajaar (those who commit major sins openly and don't care) You WILL be affected. Your own behavior changes little by little. Be in the company of people who remind you of Allah.
</b>Umar Ibn Al Khatab
<i><b>"You shall not find a people who believe in Allah and the latter day befriending those who act in opposition to Allah and His Messenger, even though they were their (own) fathers, or their sons, or their brothers, or their kinsfolk" </b></i>
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I'm sorry to hear about how you have been betrayed, but I think from this moment on you have the power to decide whether you are going to let that person ruin you, or you'll do something about it. I'm sure the mercy you have shown her and the goodness you have given her, will not be unnoticed by Allah, but now that she's working against you, maybe its best that you keep your relations with her strictly dawah only.
May ALlah be with you.