09-13-2004, 07:02 AM
assalamo alaykum brothers and sisters. i want to seek some opinion from you. If possible, your opinion must be based from an Islamic point of view.
I had a friend. We were very close before in fact sometimes she sleeps at my house for a week or two. Her father died when she was still 2 years old and her mother married another guy and she has 5 kids with her 2nd husband. I took pity on my friend after she was jilted by her boyfriend because at that time she was also having another affair with another guy. Her boyfriend took everything that he gave her including her mobile phone. So during those times I was her shoulder to lean on. And then later on the other guy jilted her again because she had another affair with another man. During those times that she was financially down i provided her with her needs and helped her with the best that i can, money, food, clothes... She owed me money for quite a sum which until now she had not paid yet. She is also indebted to my other friends and I was even a guarantor to one of her debts. She uses my mobile phone just to call her boyfriend without my permission. And her calls were sometimes from a mobile phone to a land line phone. I then discovered that she was a big liar and I thought she too was a master story teller. So I was fed up and called it quits. It's been more than 5 months since we last talked but I treat her civilly. I felt I was abused.
Is it okay if I dont talk to her anymore considering that she is a nonbeliever in Islam and I am a practising muslim?