Thanks for the information umm Zachariah, i read the piece in the link.
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However, the believing woman will do her utmost to get into paradise. The Prophet has shown her the way:
“If a woman prays her five, fasts her month, guards her private parts, <b>and obeys her husband, </b>then it is said to her, ‘Enter into Paradise from any of the gates you wish’”
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This is difficult for me to accept, and i will take your advice, and read the quran first. Everyone tells me to slow down and i do try, my ideal aim is to read it in the original tongue, no translation, in which it was written. But obviously that's going to take a very long time to learn (my classes start 22nd sept)...time time TIME...no time, must know everything now!! Serious no one tell me to slow down, i'm trying!!! But i would be interested in the views of those on here who have read through that site. As i feel i can't tell someone they are wrong about something until i know what it is they are wrong about.
I was bought to the Quran through the facts it presented to me, in the sections i'd read, not blind faith, then i felt God as a physical force a few days ago, who can explain that? I know how i felt, i didn't just cry for no reason those nights. It was just too powerful.
Then total belief through the word of God. What i'm saying is i didn't follow Islam blindly, as many claim Muslims do, the facts spoke to me. So i don't feel it's wrong for me to research future ammunition to defend my beliefs, as i will have to. Plus i want my girlfriend to choose Islam, not be forced to choose it.
There's just some things on this website i'm finding difficult to swallow, however like i said, no matter what anyone says, until the feeling i feel inside me, and the question of how we came to exist can be answered out side of gods word..which in truth it never will. Then i have no fears, only that of God. I simply seek knowledge and ask for explinations from those who understand the Quran 100 times better than i do right now.