07-06-2004, 03:11 AM
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Do NOT ever talk to me or address me like this again.
Do NOT ever tell me how to conduct my afairs.
Fear Allah and think before you talk and interfere with something that is not your business.
I will not ask you again, the fact that you are a Muslim is making me very lenient with you for such disrespect, but I will not let you disrecpect me like that again.
I was going to send a PM but since you rushed to act like this instead of sending a PM, then there you have it from me to you.
Asalaamu alaikum,
My sincere apologies - perhaps I was a bit harsh with my post. However I would like to make a few points if that is alright with you.
When something is said on a public forum, it is everyone's business.
If I see a Muslim brother lowering himself to name calling & arguing like a child, I will tell that brother how to conduct his affairs. The only reason I do this is because I FEAR ALLAH. You doubt a fellow Muslim's fear of Allah.
There are ways of dealing and speaking to non-Muslims :
An-Nahl:125-128
Invite (all) to the Way of thy Lord with wisdom and beautiful preaching; and argue with them in ways that are best and most gracious: for thy Lord knoweth best, who have strayed from His Path, and who receive guidance.
And if ye do catch them out, catch them out no worse than they catch you out: But if ye show patience, that is indeed the best (course) for those who are patient.
And do thou be patient, for thy patience is but from Allah; nor grieve over them: and distress not thyself because of their plots.
For Allah is with those who restrain themselves, and those who do good
How did I disrespect you, brother? By telling it like it is? Do you deny that you were acting immaturely? Please, show me in this thread where your maturity and sabr have shone through.
As for sending PMs - I did not know this board offered that option. However, since I am a married sister I do not PM any brother (or anyone else for that matter).
Again, I admit I was harsh with my post and I apologise that you took offense. I have checked my behaviour and asked for forgiveness, will you not do the same?
-spider