09-30-2006, 10:03 PM
THE PAST..., would you like to know...!?
Its important so lets see what your thoughts are on this:
THE PAST... would you like to know your future spouses PAST before or after you marry them and why would you think its important for this or do you feel its not important as the past is forgotten and we should just concentrate on the future!?
I hope to hear some nice detailed arguments for your decisions ... thanks...
my thought well I’m kind of lost you see I like sharing past stories because its nice to know but if you have something to hide well then I don’t know. I mean would you like to hide you troubles and move on... or share your secret past to the person your about to spend the rest of you life with!
I mean you heard about 'the past may be back to haunt you'? But then again i would like to start a new fresh life with my partner so maybe we should forget the past and just see where the new world takes us...
So I really don’t know, I would be unsure about marrying someone who’s been on dates and clubbing in the past, or drugs and been arrested! People may change for the better but make sure they don’t have a record with it that could haunt them in the future! Do you agree?