A Call From The Harem, - Printable Version

A Call From The Harem, - Printable Version

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A Call From The Harem, - NaSra - 10-13-2004

Asalamalaykum, Its a little bit long but inshaAllah you'll find it well wroth the read.

The Wasiyyah of Ash-Sheikh Abdur-Rahman as-Sudais

My Muslim Sister, you will never be able to reach the perfection that

you desire, you won't be able to regain your lost glory of the past,

or achieve your highest rank and position unless you follow the

teachings of Islam and unless you stop at the limits and boundaries

of the Sharee'ah. This will make your heart love and appreciate the

good qualities and will keep you away from bad and evil qualities.

So stay at your homes. By Allah you will be praised; you will please

your household and make your home happy; you will perfect your

Hijaab; you will perfect your chastity, revive others and you will

make yourself happy and comfortable.

Allah says
"O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their

bodies. That will be better, that they should be known (as free

respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allah is Ever Oft-

Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Surah al-Ahzaab 33:59).

So with Islam you are a " protected jewel", but without it you are a

doll in the hands of the wrong-doers; a mere object of amusement and

a merchandise of trade in the hands of human wolves who will destroy

your chastity, your honour and your dignity, and then throw you and

disregard you as one does with a date fruit and its seed.

So whenever the woman abandons the teachings of Islam and neglects

the proper Islamic dress and takes easy the matter of Hijaab,

exposing herself to men (by) walking among them and wearing perfume,

her dignity and honour vanishes and her brightness disappears, and

her modesty dwindles, and she becomes a source of fitnah (temptation

and trial) for others and the "evils" embrace her. Therefore, O

Muslim woman, who cherishes and holds onto the honour of Islam (and

is proud of the honour of Islam), and O free, honourable, chaste and

protected woman, you are the best successor of the best past

generation of Muslims. Hold fast to the book of Allah and to the

Sunnah (way and teachings) of His Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa

sallam.

Beware of the hands of the wicked plotters and the jealous eyes, and

people with bad character and evil souls, who want to lower you from

the highness of your esteemed position and dignity, and lower you

from your glory of higher rank, and take you out from the circle of

your happiness. And beware of the deception and defeat before the

open war between Hijaab and sufoor (revealing beauty), and between

chastity and liberalism.

The enemies of Islam among the Jews and their followers are upset and

sleepless over the fact that the Muslim woman is honourable,

dignified and protected, so they put her under the spotlight, trap

her in (fisherman-like) nets and shoot her with their arrows.

Moreover, it is strange that some people from our skin and who speak

our language follow them and spread their ideas and fulfil their

aims, and wage in intellectual and cultural war against our Muslim

sisters, who are the moisture of our faces, through the alluring and

deceiving slogans and the charming articles here and there. Thus,

they falsely and deceivingly call to the freedom of the woman and ask

(and push) her to work, to coming out of her home. They spread

rumours about Muslim women saying "... the conservative Muslim

society (the real one indeed, The Muslim society can only be

conservative) is that which half of it does nothing and breathes only

from one lung..., and how can the Muslim woman stay prisoner at home

between four walls...", and other misleading slogans.

They want freedom for the woman, but in reality they want to free her

from her character and etiquette, and to strip her from her

principles, dignity and honour, and lead her into evil and

corruption. They want her to be a fashion model and an item for sale

to the naive and simple-minded (assuthajj wal busataa').

Who is then left to the well-being of homes; to the happiness of the

family; to raise and educate children?

How many young women get trapped and how much tragedy happens when

the Hijaab is destroyed and the jilbaab (outer garment) is taken off

and the 'wolves" (wicked men) devour the woman. Such is as a result

of sufoor (revealing beauty) and mingling with men in jobs, schools,

and market places.

Isn't it enough zajr (reminder) what the societies, who did not

practice the teachings of Islam, fell into in terms of indecency,

evils, and disappearance of values when they neglected and ignored

the matter of the woman? As a result of that, there are now repeated

calls in these societies asking for the return of the woman to her

protected fort; her home.

Would any man with the slightest bit of ghairah (honour) and rujoolah

(manhood) be content to see his wife become a "pasturage" of the eyes

of the wicked men, and to become a "serving on the dining table". The

current condition of some societies is a witness that when the woman

goes out of her home, it is a sign of destruction, loss, corruption,

and spread of indecency and mischief in society.

Therefore, to all our Muslim Sisters in the east and in the west of

the Muslim world, I call upon you from this holy and pure land

(Makkah) to hold fast to the Qur'an and to bite onto the Sunnah of

His Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, with the front teeth,

and to follow the teachings of Islam and its adaab (etiquette).

And to the women organizations all over the world, beware of the

stupidity and bad results of the disobedience of the woman to the

guidance of Islam. Beware of being tempted by the flashing slogans

and poisoned publicity against the character of the woman and her

principles.

And to the people responsible for the Muslim child in her education

and care, I call upon you to fear Allah and to fulfil your duty

towards her while taking care of her belief, educational and ethical

aspects.

A clear limit and divider (boundary) must be set against indecency,

wicked movies and naked pictures that destroy honour and virtue and

that develop dayaathah (absence of honour and manhood to the point

where a man does not care about the females of his family in terms of

what other men may do with them) and indecency.

As to the guardians of women, fathers and husbands, I remind them of

their duty of qawaamah (protection and maintenance) of women

according to what Allah said:

"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are

devoutly obedient (to Allah and to their husbands), and guard in the

husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard. As to those women

on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next),

refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is

useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means

(of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great." (Surah

an-Nisa 4:34).

So they have to fear Allah, and save themselves and their children

from the punishment of Allah by raising and educating them according

to the teachings of Islam, and they should be warned from being loose

and neglectful in this matter. I call on their ghairah (honour)

towards their women and their rujoolah (manhood) in order to preserve

the honour and to protect their mahram women, in addition to

protecting their values, principles and characters.

So, O wise people, take a lesson, and be aware and don't be deceived

for the successful is one who is reminded through (the mistakes of)

others, and know that the Ummah reached this sad state and crisis

only after it was it hit in its system of life and when it neglected

the appropriate education and upbringing of its women. And remember

that the trustworthy and trusted (the Prophet) sallallaahu 'alayhi wa

sallam, said: "I haven't left behind me a fitnah more harmful to men

than women (when they go astray from the guidance of the Islam)."

(Bukhaaree and Muslim).

A Call From The Harem, - SisterJennifer - 10-13-2004

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Jazak Allah Khairn sister for this post. It is an excellent reminder and worth much thought and reflection.

A Call From The Harem, - Muslimah - 10-22-2004

I agree with u Jennifer

Jazaki Allah khairan Nasrah