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Zina Is Not Only Intercourse - NaSra - 01-04-2005 <b>"Rasulullah (SAW) explained: </b>If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with a piece of iron it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman whom it is not permissible for him to touch." <b>(Reported by al-Tabaraani; see also Saheeh al-Jaami, 5045). </b> This refers to the punishment for touching, so how about worse deeds, such as embracing and kissing, and even worse kinds of illicit activity? <b>Rasulullah (SAW) said</b>, "Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third." (Al-Tirmidhi 3118, Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab, Tirmidhi transmitted it as authentic) note: So we should always try not to be alone with a woman who is not mahrAm to us and not even go close to Zina. The Same goes for us Sisters. <b>Imaam al-Qurtubi (may Allah have mercy on him) said</b>: The ulama said that the phrase And come not near to unlawful sexual intercourse is more eloquent than merely saying Do not commit zinaa, because the meaning is, Do not even come close to zinaa. This means not doing any deed that may get close to zinaa or lead to it, such as being alone with a member of the opposite sex, touching, looking, going to evil places, speaking in a haraam manner to a woman to whom one is not related, thinking about and planning immoral acts, and so on. <b>Touching a Strange Woman with Lust</b> It has been reported that the person who touches a strange woman with lust, on the day of resurrection his hands will be shackled to his neck. If he kissed her, his lips will be cut off and thrown in the fire of Jahannum. If he committed adultery then his thighs will bear witness to it and testify against him on the Day of Qiyâmat. It will say to him, "I was mounted for something impermissible." Allâh will look at him with anger. The flesh of his face will fall off and he will proclaim "What did I do?" His tongue will testify and say, "I spoke to whom it was not permissible for you to talk to." His legs will testify, "I walked towards something unlawful." His hands will testify "I held something which was prohibited for you." His eyes will testify "I gazed at unlawful things." His private parts will testify "I committed the act." An angel will say, "I heard it" while another will say, "I’ve written it down." Allâh will say "I was aware of it and I concealed it." Then Allâh will say to the angels "Let him taste of my punishment. My anger has increased on one who has no shame." (Kitâb-ul-Kaba’ir) <b>Anas (RA) reports that Nabî (SAW) said:</b> "Imân is a garb with which Allâh clothes whomsoever he wishes. If a person commits adultery this garb is snatched away and if he repents it is again returned" (Kitâb-ul-Kabair). <b>Rasûlullah said:</b> "…adultery of the <b>eyes </b>is when it looks at that which is Harâm; adultery of the <b>ears </b>is when it listens to that which is Harâm; adultery of the <b>tongue</b> is when it utters Harâm; adultery of the <b>hands</b> is when it touches Harâm; adultery of the <b>feet </b>is when it walks towards Harâm; adultery of the <b>heart</b> is when it desires and hopes for that which is Harâm; adultery of the <b>private parts </b> is when it succumbs to that which is Harâm." (Targhib wa Tarhî B ) From the above Hadîth it is clear and apparent that Islam forbids not only the act of adultery but all acts that invite and encourage the act of zina. Islam <b>shuts </b>the door to the root of every evil. Zina Is Not Only Intercourse - amma - 01-15-2005 Quote:Touching a Strange Woman with Lust this is all so scary aswell as the whole post, when you read about it. Makes you think and be more aware and cautions about how you interact with other people. la hawala wala qowata ila billah Zina Is Not Only Intercourse - Muslimah - 01-25-2005 Bismillah as salam alykom Intuition This topic has been already covered long time ago, remember John is here before u under habibheebi. He raised the same topic and it was fully covered. U may search the board. He can do the same if he forgot what he received as replies. Intuition dont worry no holes in Islam But Jazaki Allah khairan for the original post excellent one Mash a Allah Zina Is Not Only Intercourse - Anyabwile - 01-25-2005 In fact here's a bulk of the section i link to here for quick viewing. But you need to read the link i posted to understand Slavery in Islam or some of the section below still won't seem to make sence. Quote:It's not nice that in a situation of war women will be taken captive no. But after war and defeat of an enemy and their land. The women remaining could either be left free to wander the streets of their enemy begging or selling themselves or be taken captive. The women couldn't go and work in the enemies land obviously as the women of these times were active in the wars not at the front line but helped the soldiers on the feild threw rocks, some fought some were archers. So they were active enemies, this is historical fact. Like i said not obviously with the all the men in the thick of battle but they participated in the battles. So just because they were women, as some with a sexist mind may think, they weren't all docile scared women in their homes. A lot came out to fight and were part of the battles. So they were still considered enemy. So "FORCE NOT" which a direct command from Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) to "not" do something. Is saying that men who own female captive of war should NOT force their women into whoredom if they want to preserve their chastity. So the idea some may have, and i would have had at the time no doubt, Was one of men having female captives and raping them as they please is directly forbidden in Qur'an "force not" or in another translation "Do not force" etc etc. So....if a man was to follow Qur'an to the letter as i and all Good Muslim do or try to do then he can in no way have sex with her when he wishes as Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) is saying to not do so "if she wished to preserve her Chastity". So some God fearing men man ask and ask and ask to have intercourse with them, but if the Woman they have taken captive says no and she wants to remain chaste, then they cannot do so...this Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) is clear on. The last part is saying if the women is forced (As Allah knows many would be) then she shouldnt feel she is wronging Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) because how can she physically stop them. But the orders are there to not do it to men for everyone to see. Some have said "well Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) should double stress that this is not the womans fault" or "Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) should not even mention the possibility of her thinking she is in the wrong when clearly she wouldnt be." I can explain this as well, women at that time were very religious (as in they all at least belived in one main God, who they called Allah) and it is part of the owner of these womens duty to teach them Qur'an or educate them in Islam and other areas if they are able. So to a Woman living in these times, who would have no doubt though that this sicko raping her was somehow in the right and she is in the wrong and being hated by Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala), No God is telling her dont think this is your fault. This is shown when he says Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) is oft forgiving at the end of the verse. As for the Guy who forces sex on the women, his case is with Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) as Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) has said to him "force not" and he went and "forced" so that's between him and Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) If he wishes to disobey Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) fine for him, but any Pious man wouldn't. So the image of Muslims raping or having intercourse with their Women captives is not a realistic one, as most Muslims at the time were extremely God fearing. I've explained of course not all would have been Pious and those ones have been warned, just in case any sick ideas pop into the head, but most were Pious so any idea of forced Intercourse etc would be out of the Question. As Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) has directly said no, force then not, do not force them. It cannot be any clearer. Apologies for using the words Rape etc to some members but it would have happened and i don't like to use the words "forced intercourse" when some of these poor women would have been raped. </div></blockquote> And read the rest here Insha Allah... http://www.islamsms.com/bb/index.php?showtopic=2507&hl= Zina Is Not Only Intercourse - NaSra - 01-26-2005 Thanks for the explanations Anya. InshaaAllah i'll read the links you gave me. JZK The last thing I need now, Is discussing this with johndoe. |