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What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - waheedrafiq - 01-08-2005
Dear brother and Sister my Allah bless you all
i have few question to ask , i would like to know what is
A) Jub-ul-Huzan
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Haviyah my second question is if knownly a senior memeber of your family dis-like you and wanted to see you destory , or to live in poor condition can you ie answer that person back if he was ie older than you lets say person A was 20 and person
was 45 years old , my final question is if your own parents did what seem to you treat you unfairly
can you stand up to them with our breaking Islamic rules
thats all
take care
Waheed Rafiq
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Muslimah - 01-08-2005
Bismillah
as salam alykom brother welcome back
It has been a long time, hope all is well with u
as for the first question, are these arabic words? if yes can u tell me the source I can not seem to be able to make up what they are.
Brother in regard to the second point Sobhan Allah, I was just discussing on the phone with someone the issue of being harmed and how to handle. Regardless the aggressor is older or not. See we must as Muslims invest such situations, the one who harms u is busy with u, thinking what to do to harm u, thinking how to impose more obstacles in your way.
In such case u have 2 options:
either to try and answer back which will tak u to the same road as his/her, which is being busy with the person, wasting your time and effort on how to hurt, harm, destroy, setting plans....etc.
Or leave it to Allah, bring it to Allah, make much dua for Allah to grant this person a better moral, better religion, better understanding of Allah, for Allah to protect u and keep u safe from all evil.
Sobhan Allah brother u see miracles.
Just think of this, when your child is harmed thru his/her peers, it depend how huge the harm is, usually if it is very huge the child seeks the father's help.
Aoudhbillah I am not of course exmplifiying Allah, but when u resort to Allah He Manifests in ways that u can not imagine.
As for the parents issue. what may see unfair to u is relevant. The conflict can be better looked at as parents are normally very compassion about the children but children sometimes see this differently. They see it as control, unfair ...ect. Whereas sometimes when the same attitude or advice comes from freinds children usually accept.
Just bear in mind that the motive of parents attitude is always deep love and concern. From this u can go on.
Hope I helped
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - waheedrafiq - 01-09-2005
Many thanks for your advice. About the two words they come from this book that I found interesting to read [ please note I don’t follow any particular cast ] the book name is Hell autor Maulana Habibullah Mukhtar publisher Idara ISBN: 81-7101-433-x publisher has got a web site www.idara.com
hope you can explain to me about those two words and I think its Arabic word.
Going back to my second question about the parents, the point I am trying to get to you is if your parents where wrong i.e. example Parent has got 3 kids all boy’s okay the middle one if force to married within family but when it came to the older son he had his choice and the younger son well he got to choose a women with out a cast or a religion and was quite happily accepted within the family.
Where does one stand in the above case should the middle child stand up and say Well who do you think you are mum and dad or should he not answer back and just go with the flow.
Brother about me that your very first answer that you have not seen me here for a quite long time.
Firstly I am very touch by those comment as I have very and believe me very few friends Allah knows best why that is the case but I was always know to be the quite one in the family and in school I never really had any friends, believe it or not if you where to meet me in life I have a totally a different personality , humour , bubble , character or at least that what my colleague say at work.
I never play football which was why I think I have not friends. but never the less.
Also to update you about me its been a very long time since I prayed to Allah I wish that my imaan was stronge enough so I can pray five times a day like you and I wish I could read the Korn and even speak Arabic like you.
may Allah keep you in good health and if need be it may Allah take my life instead of yours in bad times as a sinner I need to get out of this planet fast J
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What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Rock - 01-09-2005
God blessing
Jub- Al hazan is a valley in the hill prepared for those who their deeds are done only to attract notice and win the admeration of the peoples not for the God sake. the hill commit to God counter to this valley 400 times a day,and the prophet Muhammed told us to commit ourself counter to this valley (Ibn Maga/ Eltermezi/Eltabarani).Al Hazan
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Muslimah - 01-10-2005
Bismillah
Jazakum Allah khairan katheeran Rock for this explanation I could not make the words at besides I never heard of this hill. May Allah protect us against Riya ameen
Brother waheed, never say may Allah take anyone instead of anyone because life time is determined only by Allah.
As for the parents situation u explained one must just make dua in case unjust befell him/her, in all cases parents never, never, never mean to harm children. You re a father I know, and u must be aware what fatherly feelings and care are.
Last but not least, brother fight to pray your five, it is important, it is a blessing that we have this prayer to talk to Allah through. However, never imagine that because u dont pray Allah Shall not listen to u if u call on Him. No Allah Hears, Listens and accepts. It is us who need to pray. Fight Shaytan and do it brother.
Keep coming here u add to the forum Mash a Allah
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - waheedrafiq - 01-22-2005
many thanks for your reply inshalla i shall make more effort to pray 5 times
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Anyabwile - 01-22-2005
Quote:many thanks for your reply inshalla i shall make more effort to pray 5 times
Brother i will make Dua for you and i hope everything goes well. Remember to always ask Allah (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) for help. Once the prayers are back on, Insha Allah, everything else will ease into place. Try and get the five prayers going, and Insha Allah, your effort will be noted and help will arrive for these tests you are going through.
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Muslimah - 01-24-2005
Bismillah
as salam alykom
Alhamdulelah waheed stick with us here Insh a Allah the company will benefit u
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - waheedrafiq - 02-15-2005
Wow so much support brothers, I can't thank you guy's enough and most important
Allah , Today 15th February 2005 time 7:45 I met a old brother who prays five times a day he perform his second Hajj with his wife who perform for the first time.
my dear brothers why is it when you are with a good person your imaan seeks Quran , Namaz , and you don't think evil and the moment you step out side that environment you notice a half-naked women , a man who is drinking alcohol , loud music (English) , and some Muslim who call them self Muslim performing adultery on the rds.
this good brother of my shown me a video that open my heart to theed again I have never heard of Mecca or Minda been flooded or even rain , this is my first time that I have heard that it rain in Mecca and Minda.
Wow the power of Allah, so good and so pure, then why is it that those of us who are really weak in Imaan, why is it that Allah does not help those who have almost forgotten him.
What Is Jub-ul-huzan & Haviyah - Muslimah - 02-16-2005
Bismillah
as salam alykom waheed
Mash a Allah I am glad u met this brother.
Brother, Allah Created Jannah and Juhanum so there will be dwellers for both, that is why u find these things u explained about.
As why there still us who are week in IMan, if u want Allah Can help u much to lift up your Eman, only u have to want it. Allah Shall not impose Himself on u, u need Him He does not Need anyone/thing. Show HIm u want to be stronger, ask Him for help day and night, Allah Is never tired of those who ask, on the contrary He Loves them
Now again why Muslims do these things, because Allah Is Assabour (All Patient) AlGhafour (Oft Forgiving) Attawab (One Who Grants repentance) if mankind dont commit these things and sins how will those Names and Attributes of Allah continue being functioning? They must continue functioning brother. Just ask Allah for help, guidance and support the result will be amazing for u when u taste the sweetness of Allah's closeness.